Taking your child on holiday – Practical steps to keep it simple

Arranging to take your child on holiday can be tricky for separated parents, but a bit of planning can make things much easier and prevent any disputes or disappointments down the line.

Put your child first

You should think about what works best for your child.  You will need to consider their routine, age, any activities that they enjoy as well as who will be joining you on the holiday.  For example, will you be travelling abroad? Will you be travelling with friends or family members?

Plan ahead

It is important to agree on dates early and confirm them in writing with the other parent before making any definite plans. This will ensure that there is no confusion, last minute stress or wasted costs. 

Communicate clearly

Share key details like travel plans, pick-up times, and contact information. Check that you will have the passports in good time for any foreign travel.  Again, good communication will prevent any disagreements and ensure everything runs smoothly.

Be flexible

Plans can change so do try and be reasonable when you can.

Sort out costs and logistics

Decide in advance who will cover the costs of the holiday, any related expenses and how the handovers will work.

Consider formal agreements if needed

If things are difficult, you may need to consider consulting a solicitor to write to the other parent to finalise any arrangements and, in certain circumstances, consider the need to make an application to the Court to ensure that the holiday goes ahead.